Can't get enough stimulation with a latex condom - [SOLVED] Follow up resolution

[jm20]

Hello everybody,

Some background: I'm in my 20s, usually healthy. Had a circumcision when I was 3 years old.

In all my sexual encounters, I noticed a pattern: I can't get enough stimulation during a vaginal intercourse using a latex condom. Before penetration I'm having a normal erection, I'm putting the latex condom on, then I enter the vagina, thrust few times, and then it feels like I'm losing it, like there is nothing to keep me "alive" inside, no stimulation. Maybe just a bit at the beginning, and then it just goes away. It happened with different sexual partners.

I tried the following latex brands: Durex fetherlite, Durex extra sensitive, Trojan regular, Trojan magnum, LifeStyles skyn non-latex (Polyisoprene), Crown, Beyond Seven Sheerlon Latex, Rugby premium, AHF icon. I also tried to use KY Jelly lubricant to put at the penis tip and inside/outside the condom. All these attemps lead to the same results.

I do have normal stimulation if I don't use a condom at all or if I use another type of condom: skin lamb (naturalamb) luxury condoms by trojan. It does work, and I can get enough stimulation so it keeps the act going all the way to orgasm. The problem with skinlamb, is that it's meant for pregnancy protection only, it does not protect against STIs. And I hate the idea that I expose myself to STIs.

I really don't understand why I have problem with latex condoms, has it to do with the fact that I was circumcised at 3 years old? I went to the urologist, and he claimed that my penis circumcision looks normal. I tried to confront the surgeon who did the circumcision, and he didn't take any responsibility for it. The urologist also gave me some viagra samples so I can use with a latex, which I haven't tried yet, but it seems ridiculious that I need to take it everytime I want to use a latex condom, plus I don't think it's an erection problem, but more loss of sensation.

I just want to be able to use latex like everybody else, so I can protect myself from stds, and the fact that I can't makes me feel really frustrated. Is there anything else I can try, that I haven't yet?

Thanks!

Just an update on the thread above originally posted in the old forum. I took admin's (Ron) advice about trying Trojan Ecstasy Stimulations Ecstasy UltraSmooth Lubricant latex condom, and it works. It has a completely different design and mechanism that simulates the foreskin gliding, with extra lube from inside out and also ribs, and it feels really good. Much more stimulating than a classic design latex. Admin thanks so much again for this helpful recommendation and hope some can find this thread to be helpful too.

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[Swingshiftworker]

FWIW, after I restored sufficiently to develop a foreskin tube and achieve the "rolling" action, I also developed a lack of sensitivity during intercourse which is much like the effect of wearing a condom.

I now am seldom able to cum in the missionary position because there is insufficient friction/sensation inside my GF's vagina in this position and am now only able to cum down regularly when I enter her from behind. In that position I can enter her more deeply and can vary the angle so that there is greater pressure/sensation applied to the head/shaft of my penis.

I'm guessing that I'm not the only guy w/a restored foreskin w/this problem but I have not heard much talk of it in the old forum or elsewhere.

[Mhc89]

Im not restored yet. The wife said she noticed extra skin last time she was playing with it after only a month, of restoring. But I reach orgasm super fast right now. Will be interesting to hear from other restored men

[AlfonsoT]

FWIW, after I restored sufficiently to develop a foreskin tube and achieve the "rolling" action, I also developed a lack of sensitivity during intercourse which is much like the effect of wearing a condom.

I now am seldom able to cum in the missionary position because there is insufficient friction/sensation inside my GF's vagina in this position and am now only able to cum down regularly when I enter her from behind. In that position I can enter her more deeply and can vary the angle so that there is greater pressure/sensation applied to the head/shaft of my penis.

I'm guessing that I'm not the only guy w/a restored foreskin w/this problem but I have not heard much talk of it in the old forum or elsewhere.

So, after restorationyou actually feel less than before?.

I im starting my restoration and i am wondering this kind of things, i am worry that i will come too fast or that i will not feel enought.

I will appreciate some testimonials of restored people.

[Swingshiftworker]

So, after restoration you actually feel less than before?.

In a word, yes.

As I explained above, I have a very thick foreskin and after restoration it deadens the feeling on my glans and along my shaft. If I just go "rolling" along (in and out), I basically feel nothing at all and lose my erection. So, I have to make a conscious effort to cause some friction by angling my penis in such a way that it causes the glans to rub against the walls of my GF's vagina . I also find that I need to fully enter her ("balls to the walls") in order to enhance the feeling along the entire shaft.

However, I should add that my age (65) may be a factor in this. I do not have ED but it is said that, while older men may not have ED, they still may have difficulties achieving orgasm and ejaculation due to their age. So, this problem of mine may be more due to my age than my restoration and the thickness of my foreskin.

See: http://www.aarp.org/relationships/lo...ot_climax.html

[Eunuch]

In a word, yes.

As I explained above, I have a very thick foreskin and after restoration it deadens the feeling on my glans and along my shaft. If I just go "rolling" along (in and out), I basically feel nothing at all and lose my erection. So, I have to make a conscious effort to cause some friction by angling my penis in such a way that it causes the glans to rub against the walls of my GF's vagina . I also find that I need to fully enter her ("balls to the walls") in order to enhance the feeling along the entire shaft.

However, I should add that my age (65) may be a factor in this. I do not have ED but it is said that, while older men may not have ED, they still may have difficulties achieving orgasm and ejaculation due to their age. So, this problem of mine may be more due to my age than my restoration and the thickness of my foreskin.

See: http://www.aarp.org/relationships/lo...ot_climax.html

What I think is happening is the lack of ridged band, maybe no frenulum either? Study the ridged band so you can understand how destructive circumcision really is. The retraction and stretching of this accordion-like structure(ridged band) triggers the pleasure from penetration you are missing. I am far from an expert but those are my two cents.


I got upset at the "doctor" prescribing viagra for an issue obviously created by mutilation. Capitalist medicine shows it's true colors once more, the exploitation continues at adulthood.

[Swingshiftworker]

What I think is happening is the lack of ridged band, maybe no frenulum either?

I'm not really concerned about "why" this is happening to me because there's really nothing that can be done about it. It just "is what it is."

FWIW, I have been taking daily dose cialis for many years and getting an erection is usually not a problem. Keeping it because of the deadened sensation and/or the difficulty of ejaculation may be caused by the restoration but, frankly, I think it's more likely due to my age.

[Gun Del Sol]

In a word, yes.

As I explained above, I have a very thick foreskin and after restoration it deadens the feeling on my glans and along my shaft. [/URL]

Do you have a lot of inner mucosa (foreskin)? That also may be a factor. It is technically not skin, and mucosa us thinner than outer part of the foreskin itself. That could help to thin it out. I think.

[Robrestoration]

I have enough restored to keep it in a foreword position over the head now most of the time. The inner skin sensitivity is incredible and allows me to achieve orgasms faster and easier. This is a win because I used to have to pound it out really hard for an extensive amount of time

also the sensitivity is not where I used to focus - on the head - but now the roll over of inner and outer skin.

Crazy to say but it’s like easing into an orgasm - with more intensity and larger ejaculations ....