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  • tuguser
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    The second paragraph pertained to Memphis Showoff’s inquiry about skin irritation. Also, I didn’t order the stainless steel version. Instead, I got the black resin retainer with a full compliment of weights also in black.
    P.S.-I’m also now wearing just the 16 oz. weight as I’ve ‘graduated’ up from the 12 oz.👍🏼

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  • tuguser
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    Hello Ron,
    thanks for reminding me that ‘tug n wear’ is a separate entity from TLC Tugger. You’d alluded to that sometime ago, but I’d forgot.
    As far as your question about the 12 oz. weight attachment and configuration to the stealth retainer, the weight simply screws into the tip/ end of the retainer cap and hangs there freely. The design is so compact that if I’m laying on my side, it hangs toward the bed surface. If I’m on my back, it’ll lay down between my thighs or across my stomach. Same if I lay on my stomach. There’s really no set configuration for tugging. This may not be the most optimal way to tug, but it does allow me the freedom to toss or turn while asleep. I sometimes incorporate wearing the device in this manner just so I can experience gentle tension throughout the night.

    I don’t urinate while wearing my retainer because I dislike the odor it leaves behind and no matter how vigorously the shake at the end is, there’s always some urine residue left inside the retainer. I’d rather just remove it each time and I’ve become very quick at its removal and reapplication. The only temporary issue that sometimes occurs is that the weight pulls my glans a little so the tip of the meatus could slip partially into the pee opening of the retainer, which is remedied once I remove the device. I’ve never had any irritation with it. Perhaps because I’m always retaining, I did once experience some flaking off of dead skin cells from my glans, which I was happy about. It only happened once, but I’m hoping it’ll occur more frequently as my glans become more smooth.

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  • MemphisShowOff
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    Originally posted by tuguser View Post
    Memphis showoff,
    Im a nudist and also sleep nude. I’ve been wearing just the stealthRetainer to bed. It keeps my glans covered even through nocturnal erections. I’ve even added the 16 oz. weight with it. Sometimes, it’ll wake me up and I just take it off and fall back asleep. I think for me, the sweet spot is 12 oz. I can actually wear that throughout the night complete with nocturnal erections and it stays in place until the erections subside. One of the only retainers I’ve found that seldom comes loose. They’ve now also introduced an even tighter fitting gripper (some guys report that it’s too tight and pinches a bit). So far, the regular gripper that came with my retainer still holds. When out and about, I use a tether and carabiner hooked to my belt loop or just wear TLC’s ‘tug n wear’ to catch anything from reaching the floor if it should come loose.
    I wasn't aware of the Stealth Retainer. It looks perfect to wear and be able to pee without having to remove the device. I sometimes wear my DTR without any weight and can pee through that hole, but it's a bit bulky to wear in underwear. I've ordered a Stealth Retainer and I'll let you know how I like it. On another subject ... I've noticed that if I wear the retainer several days in a row, it sometimes irritates the skin and makes it "flakey". Any solution or recommendation for that?

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  • admin
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    Originally posted by tuguser View Post
    It keeps my glans covered even through nocturnal erections. I’ve even added the 16 oz. weight with it.
    I'm trying tyo picture what a weight does for you in bed. How is that configured?

    Originally posted by tuguser View Post
    wear TLC’s ‘tug n wear’ to catch anything from reaching the floor
    Tug N Wear is great, but it's not offered by TLC Tugger, and there is no financial relationship between TLC Tugger and Tug N Wear. Get Tug N Wear from http://TugNWear.com


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  • tuguser
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    Memphis showoff,
    Im a nudist and also sleep nude. I’ve been wearing just the stealthRetainer to bed. It keeps my glans covered even through nocturnal erections. I’ve even added the 16 oz. weight with it. Sometimes, it’ll wake me up and I just take it off and fall back asleep. I think for me, the sweet spot is 12 oz. I can actually wear that throughout the night complete with nocturnal erections and it stays in place until the erections subside. One of the only retainers I’ve found that seldom comes loose. They’ve now also introduced an even tighter fitting gripper (some guys report that it’s too tight and pinches a bit). So far, the regular gripper that came with my retainer still holds. When out and about, I use a tether and carabiner hooked to my belt loop or just wear TLC’s ‘tug n wear’ to catch anything from reaching the floor if it should come loose.

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  • gdom
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    See my retaining method where you use silicone tape to create a 'faux skin'... works amazing for me because I'm a shower and still cannot use other retaining methods at night.

    Also, you look like you have enough skin to cross tape without pain. Have you considered this option at night?

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  • ems1
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    I have a recommendation for your underwear issue. Yes regular underwear can be uncomfortable and cause chaffing. Try pouch underwear, brands like sheath give you two separate pouches for your scrotum and penis. Not only is this more comfortable for a non-restorer. But it allows you to use the pouch as an advantage when restoring. Stick your penis and device in the pouch and if the device were to fall off, it stays in your underwear. You don’t know how many times this has saved me from the embarrassment of explaining what that is that fell on the floor out of my pants. And it prevents a device from irritating your thighs or other skin.

    hope this helps,

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  • tuguser
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    Memphis Showoff,

    this is a late response, but if you haven’t found a retainer that stays, try Stealthretainer.com. Mine hasn’t arrived yet, but from the YouTube videos it looks like it’ll do the trick.

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  • Robrestoration
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    Originally posted by MemphisShowOff View Post
    I don't think there is a stigma really, I just don't like wearing underwear. Keeps my cock and balls wadded up. The plus side is that underwear does keep me head covered. I just can't sleep unless I'm naked.



    Well it looks like quite a bit would be wadded up..... Great progress btw and a cool pa!

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  • Robrestoration
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    I can understand that completely. I am a homosexual and some of the underwear I imagine you speak of makes me pensive.

    Underwear is usually private, but in the rare occasion one is exposed it can be alarming!

    Some can be quite flattering for the package and the legs and ass, yet jarring if left only wearing those.



    Originally posted by salamander6773 View Post

    The ones I wear look like women's underwear to be honest... They are largely worn by homosexuals, of which I am not. Luckily underwear should be a private matter.

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  • MemphisShowOff
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    I don't think there is a stigma really, I just don't like wearing underwear. Keeps my cock and balls wadded up. The plus side is that underwear does keep me head covered. I just can't sleep unless I'm naked.


    Originally posted by Robrestoration View Post

    What is the stigma in your opinion?

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  • salamander6773
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    Originally posted by Robrestoration View Post

    What is the stigma in your opinion?
    The ones I wear look like women's underwear to be honest... They are largely worn by homosexuals, of which I am not. Luckily underwear should be a private matter.

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  • Robrestoration
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    Originally posted by salamander6773 View Post
    Jock straps are ideal for restoration. If you can get over the stigma...
    What is the stigma in your opinion?

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  • MemphisShowOff
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    Thanks for the suggestions guys! @salamander6773 I will certainly try to start wearing a jock to bed. I may can sleep in that and hadn't thought about it before. Nightly erections may still be an issue, but worth a try! The jock may hold erection in place.

    @BelgianChrisI think you are right. I stay covered all day at work, it's when I get home and want to be naked and overnight that it becomes a problem. I think @MannyPRBhas a good idea and I've ordered several external catheters to help hold my foreskin in place.

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  • MannyPRB
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    Hey MemphisShowOff, have you tried retaining with male condom catheters? I use these to retain sometimes, with or without underwear, and they never fall off.

    Check it out here: http://www.foreskinrestore.com/Keeper.html


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