My dad is being very controlling PLEASE HELP I beg of you

[Officer Bakon]

Hey guys I just decided to start my foreskin restoration journey to repair most damage that was brought to me by my ignorant parents. I told my father (stupid idea) that I wanted to restore and I provided him 2 ways that I could do it. The first way was surgery which is NOT effective and the other way was the tugging method which is much slower but provides WAY better results.

I have not taken this decision lightly and was thinking about this very heavily for years that I want to restore my foreskin, there are SO MANY BENEFITS of restoring one is that the glans will no longer be calloused and painful like it is for me now also sensitivity will be greatly increased. I very calmly and in a organized way showed my dad that the tugger is the most effective way of restoring my foreskin. My mom is much more supportive than my dad but still they are being very resistive.

I want to start restoring now so that I can get used to the device before I have to go back to college in 3 months and have done everything but they still wont budge. My circumcision has made me very depressed over the years to the point I had a couple suicide attempts and my parents simply told me to brush it off.

Here is the problem

MY dad thinks the tuggers that many of you use are bogus and that its unsafe (the one that is unsafe is the surgery but they think surgery is better). Anyways I need you guys to try and convince him that the tugging method is better than the surgery and for him to allow me to begin restoring. Im 19 years old but my parents stil treat me like a child. Im going to see our urologist in a week I PRAY that he is one of those open-minded guys. If the doctor we are seeing actually agrees with me that will be the final push and my father will allow me to start restoring.

I don't want to live like this for the rest of my life I WANT TO START RESTORING NOW while I have the chance I want to experience the benefits, im only repairing my body not damaging it unlike them. Guys please PLEASE help me ill give you my dads email if I have to..........

[shaunism]

You can always manually tug - a few mins every time you use a restroom. No one can stop that, and it seems to be the way a lot of guys start - including me, one month in.

They may never understand. They might not want to believe they've harmed their son. Do what you need to do, but do it privately; no one needs to know your business.

[Officer Bakon]

Will manually tugging completely restore my foreskin?

[Officer Bakon]

Is it effective to manualy tug is it best erect or non erect, I really want to restore my foreskin but my parents want to wait until we see the doctor? Im 19 but they still treat me like a child

[hardacroposthion]

Officer,

Let’s clarify some concepts…

Surgical foreskin restoration is fast and effective, with one huge flaw; your new foreskin would be a numb prepuce. Because the skin comes from your scrotum, it will not have any nerve endings connecting to your original nerves on your penis. Your new foreskin might look OK when flaccid, but you will not have the same characteristics of the real prepuce. For example, your glans will be touching scrotal skin instead of being surrounded by inner skin, which is mucosal skin. In the long run, you definitely don’t want to take this route.

Manual restoration is the very best option. By tugging the scar line from beginning to the end of your restoration, you will be redeveloping and stimulating the nerve ending that reside under the scar line, eventually leaving you with a very erotically sensitive prepuce. Granted, manual methods require a great amount of discipline and dedication. And the best way to do manual methods is to use cyclic tensioning. This means that you keep a strict schedule on when you tug, and when you rest. In my case, I used to tug for no longer than 2 minutes per session, on an hourly basis, from the time I woke up until I went to bed at night. By tugging for short sessions many times a day, you are stressing the foreskin for a short period, leaving an hour in between sessions to recover from the tugging session.

I’m partially on your father’s side regarding tuggers and other devices. And the reason for that is because men tend to depend on them to do the tugging for them, without knowing that cyclical tensioning makes the whole process more effective. Instead, many men tend to wear devices for too long, diminishing the effectiveness of the device. If men that use devices got into the practice to wear the device for an hour, off another hour, and on again for another hour, this cyclical tensioning works best. By doing so, they would get better results.

If the doctor you are going to visit turns out to rule against you, simply ignore whatever he says. He is most probably another comatose circumcised male. If he is more open-minded, good for you.

You can always tug whenever you have a private moment. That’s the beauty of manual methods; you can do them whenever the opportunity arises. Start tugging now regardless of what your father thinks. It is none of his business what you do with your penis.

[hardacroposthion]

Is it effective to manualy tug is it best erect or non erect, I really want to restore my foreskin but my parents want to wait until we see the doctor? Im 19 but they still treat me like a child

There are several methods to tug depending if you are flaccid or erect. I always tugged flaccid. Once I had enough skin to do the Squeeze-Stretch technique, I starting to tug erect.

[Officer Bakon]

Will tugging manually restore my foreskin completely I'm worried it's hard and I need help making a plan.

[hardacroposthion]

Will tugging manually restore my foreskin completely I'm worried it's hard and I need help making a plan.

If you apply yourself to your restoration, you will have a full foreskin in the end. I was a CI-3, and now I'm a CI-8+. I'm currently working on reaching a CI-9 by the end of this year. It can be done, and it can be done fast. But, you must be patient at the same time. Trust me when I tell you that slow and steady is the best way to achieve your restoration.

[bdtater]

+1 to starting with manual methods. I don't quite understand why at 19, you'd be basing your decision on your parents' opinions of this - because it's your body, and you're an adult - but you can do manual methods free and in private. I used only manual for the first year, before purchasing a TLC-X, and I still use manual whenever I can. Is it hard? No. But does it require patience and time? Yes. Can you completely restore using manual methods only? Absolutely. There are at least a couple of guys on this forum that have done just that.

I think starting with manual is best anyway, if you're considering a device in the future, so that you can get familiar with differing levels of tension before trusting that sort of thing with a device. I personally prefer methods 2 (when erect) and 4 (when flaccid, but requires at least a CI3). I also incorporate method 3 and the squeeze stretch.

[Officer Bakon]

Yes Im a Medium cut CI-2 when flaccid I can very easily pull the shaft skin to the corona with no problem, same when erect but it takes a little but more torsion any ideas?

[Officer Bakon]

Also I got a fleshlight to help with masturbation I used to do about 3-4 times everyday but now I do it only 2 times a week, should I get a tighter one? ALSO one thing I did notice is that I have enough skin to do some gliding action when using the fleshlight, I was thinking about getting another one which is tighter since the one I have is not tight enough. Ill try and post a pic of my Penis when its fully erect, its like 50% covered with inner skin

[Officer Bakon]

Ok guys here it is when its almost fully erect, I have some gliding action and can actually almost jerk off by doing gliding. Also I can nearly pull the shaft skin almost to the corona any ideas? Also should I get a tighter fleshlight and use edging to help with the process?

[NITRO]

Dude, and I say this with the utmost brospect possible, but it is your body and your choice. This is entirely what inactivism is trying to say that the choice of cutting should be a personal choice and not the choice of others. You are 19 and it is your body.

To be quite frank, if you don't start setting some boundaries with your parents treating you like a child when you are 19, it will never end. It took me until I was 27 to realize that and my parents finally stopped significantly now and I'm 29. Although, sometimes it comes up on occasion which doesn't help our rather strained relationship. It took me physically separating with them by moving to Europe from the US and setting hard boundaries shortly after which, as you probably can imagine, was not welcomed at all.

This is your personal choice to restore and it should remain as such. Worst case if the doctor disagrees with you, just drop the subject and manually restore on your own until you move out and graduate to a tugger down the road. Good luck with your situation!

[Officer Bakon]

No the doctor is open minded so maybe if I explain the situation it may help.

[NITRO]

Excellent! I hope things will work out for you. Like I said, worst case just manually stretch on your own. No one has to know and nothing more needs to be said about it.