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Hey everyone, so i want to start by saying so great there is a forum like this for tips tricks and support for this journey to return what was taken from me when i was only a couple days old.
I was born in 1989 in the chicagoland area, and as to be expected then most everyone was cut at birth, another reason i was cut was most likely so i "matched" my father so there wouldn't be any difficult questions for my parents when i got old enough to see "why don't i look like daddy?"
growing up i never thought anything about, i didn't know any better. i only ever saw m father and the couple neighbor friend of mine and everyone looked the same. it wasn't until sex ed started in school when i learned about what happened to me and it was ok because even though it wasn't for any religious reason it was how they teach it's "clean". then when i got later into high school i learned more about foreskin and what it was and why it was there and what it did. that,s where i started getting upset about how i wished i was never circumcised but didn't know or think there was anything i could do about it so i moved on and just went on about my life.
my journey for restoration began about two months ago, me and my wife are expecting our second child (first is a beautiful little girl) and we went to out gender peak ultrasound and with much excitement found out we were gong to be having a little boy this october! we are very excited about this and we cant wait to meet our little man!
about a month ago my wife was having scary and consistent contractions for a few hours so we went into the hospital and got checked out, they made them stop and all was well. but in that time we were there the nurse came in and asked the gamit of questions and one of them being "are you circumcising?" and my wife without missing a step says yes. she was born and raised in the same mentality of that was the normal status of men. i stopped her and said wait we haven't talked about this yet and at first she was against it. so we looked into all the info of having it done and why not to have it done and thankfully she understands and stands beside me on not doing this to our baby boy.
so that is where it led me to restoring, at the time i had no knowledge of restoring or it was possible so the first thought in my head was one day ill have to explain why mine doesnt look like his. thought of a good few reasons then one night for grin i googled " foreskin restoration process" and a whole new world was opened up to me. so excited this was possible, smacking my head thinking why didn't i think of researching this before!
i researched it a bit, more like obsessed over it haha and decided i wanted to do this and start immediately. i wanted to involve my wife in this and get her input and see what she thought. she was skeptical at first but once i explained it to her she understood more and thought it was a great idea as well and is very supportive, that is a very nice thing to have. to be able to get back this part of me i felt like i have been missing for the past ten years, to get back the most of the pleasure i can, and more importantly to feel whole again.
So when i started out i was a c-2 almost c-3, i used to be alot tighter and i used to have painful erections when i was younger and would pull on my skin thinking i would "stretch" it, not knowing of mitosis, a bit because it was too tight, did that during masturbating for years little did i know i was actually helping myself get where i am now.
i have been doing manual very frequently and for the past week i have been using a canister i made out of a pill bottle and a binder clip tension to my knee and its been going great! i am a solid c-3 right now and get roll over if sitting leaning forward or if it is quite chilly. i have always been more of a grower not a shower so i like that for the aspect i feel i will reach flaccid coverage sooner. i plan on ordering the tlc-x once i get some extra money, i would really like a tapeless device for those spontaneous moments withe the wife alot easier to remove quickly.
i do have one question, has anyone experienced their circ scar seem to start fading? im starting to get separations in the middle of it running horizontally almost like its breaking up, at first i got scared thinking i tore but it is painless. and i dont think it would be stretch marks because i dont apply that much tension. any insight?
Thanks again for all you guys on here and your help is appreciated i hope i can help some people out on here too.
I was born in 1989 in the chicagoland area, and as to be expected then most everyone was cut at birth, another reason i was cut was most likely so i "matched" my father so there wouldn't be any difficult questions for my parents when i got old enough to see "why don't i look like daddy?"
growing up i never thought anything about, i didn't know any better. i only ever saw m father and the couple neighbor friend of mine and everyone looked the same. it wasn't until sex ed started in school when i learned about what happened to me and it was ok because even though it wasn't for any religious reason it was how they teach it's "clean". then when i got later into high school i learned more about foreskin and what it was and why it was there and what it did. that,s where i started getting upset about how i wished i was never circumcised but didn't know or think there was anything i could do about it so i moved on and just went on about my life.
my journey for restoration began about two months ago, me and my wife are expecting our second child (first is a beautiful little girl) and we went to out gender peak ultrasound and with much excitement found out we were gong to be having a little boy this october! we are very excited about this and we cant wait to meet our little man!
about a month ago my wife was having scary and consistent contractions for a few hours so we went into the hospital and got checked out, they made them stop and all was well. but in that time we were there the nurse came in and asked the gamit of questions and one of them being "are you circumcising?" and my wife without missing a step says yes. she was born and raised in the same mentality of that was the normal status of men. i stopped her and said wait we haven't talked about this yet and at first she was against it. so we looked into all the info of having it done and why not to have it done and thankfully she understands and stands beside me on not doing this to our baby boy.
so that is where it led me to restoring, at the time i had no knowledge of restoring or it was possible so the first thought in my head was one day ill have to explain why mine doesnt look like his. thought of a good few reasons then one night for grin i googled " foreskin restoration process" and a whole new world was opened up to me. so excited this was possible, smacking my head thinking why didn't i think of researching this before!
i researched it a bit, more like obsessed over it haha and decided i wanted to do this and start immediately. i wanted to involve my wife in this and get her input and see what she thought. she was skeptical at first but once i explained it to her she understood more and thought it was a great idea as well and is very supportive, that is a very nice thing to have. to be able to get back this part of me i felt like i have been missing for the past ten years, to get back the most of the pleasure i can, and more importantly to feel whole again.
So when i started out i was a c-2 almost c-3, i used to be alot tighter and i used to have painful erections when i was younger and would pull on my skin thinking i would "stretch" it, not knowing of mitosis, a bit because it was too tight, did that during masturbating for years little did i know i was actually helping myself get where i am now.
i have been doing manual very frequently and for the past week i have been using a canister i made out of a pill bottle and a binder clip tension to my knee and its been going great! i am a solid c-3 right now and get roll over if sitting leaning forward or if it is quite chilly. i have always been more of a grower not a shower so i like that for the aspect i feel i will reach flaccid coverage sooner. i plan on ordering the tlc-x once i get some extra money, i would really like a tapeless device for those spontaneous moments withe the wife alot easier to remove quickly.
i do have one question, has anyone experienced their circ scar seem to start fading? im starting to get separations in the middle of it running horizontally almost like its breaking up, at first i got scared thinking i tore but it is painless. and i dont think it would be stretch marks because i dont apply that much tension. any insight?
Thanks again for all you guys on here and your help is appreciated i hope i can help some people out on here too.
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