Can an intact guy join this forum? I'm asking because one of my mates at school is moving in with us for 6 months, which is fantastic and I'm really happy about. I told him about this forum and what I'm doing and why it's important to me and he is interested in joining, to learn about it and help support me and although he is uncut he said he wouldn't mind his foreskin a bit longer, so I said I would ask around here, perhaps the moderator can clarify, would my mate be welcome to join here, or is it only for us circumcised guys? He might be able to find something here on stretching and intact foreskin to be longer, and at the very least see why this stuff is important to us. Let me know and I'll let him know. I guess if not I'll tell him to f### off π thanks π
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Originally posted by Ben15aussie View PostCan an intact guy join this forum? I'm asking because one of my mates at school is moving in with us for 6 months, which is fantastic and I'm really happy about. I told him about this forum and what I'm doing and why it's important to me and he is interested in joining, to learn about it and help support me and although he is uncut he said he wouldn't mind his foreskin a bit longer, so I said I would ask around here, perhaps the moderator can clarify, would my mate be welcome to join here, or is it only for us circumcised guys? He might be able to find something here on stretching and intact foreskin to be longer, and at the very least see why this stuff is important to us. Let me know and I'll let him know. I guess if not I'll tell him to f### off π thanks π
I genuinely hope your friend knows what his parents did for him. I still feel hurt that this happened to me. Although I did something about it and am glad I took the initiative.View My Progress Gallery @ https://foreskinrestoration.vbulleti...ooded-progress
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Well, if he's *that* close of a mate... tell him we all said to piss off.
Ofcourse he's welcome!
There are sections here for Intact lengthening and Phimosis curing to solve Intact mens problems without mutilation. We usually get a lot of helpful insight and ideas from intact people, and they usually make really fast progress if they choose for more skin
Everybody is welcome here, unless they're going too far with Pro-mutilation, attacking people, or the rest of the terms of service.Saying someone is "Unmutilated" is like saying "Unsweet Tea". So you mean it's just Tea, in its natural state, that nobody has screwed up? It can't be Un- anything
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Hey Frizzen, cheers π
...and yes perhaps I really should use the term "natural" to describe the non-circumcised form... I agree that selection of words matter. Uncut can imply that to be cut is the default state, and that uncut is something that has missed a perceived default process. I agree we need terminology that recognises the natural form that exists without any surgical influence.
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Originally posted by Ben15aussie View PostHey Frizzen, cheers π
...and yes perhaps I really should use the term "natural" to describe the non-circumcised form... I agree that selection of words matter. Uncut can imply that to be cut is the default state, and that uncut is something that has missed a perceived default process. I agree we need terminology that recognises the natural form that exists without any surgical influence.
You'll find your word choice is helpful to control the narrative of your conversations, especially when trying to persuade someone.
Using the 'socially accepted' terms for Male Genital Mutilation, you're going along with it being acceptable. People will continue to hide in their cognitive disonnance.
If you use their 'cutesy slang' puts you in even closer with it's acceptable, and such a good thing we even made other terms that sound funny and cute so we don't have to ever admit that anything was clamped, sliced, crushed, hacked off. See it's not sexual assault on a minor, it's just cute, tee-hee!
So if that procedure were performed on a Female, what is it called? In the media reporting, her vulva sure as hell wouldn't have been "snipped", or "cut", or "trimmed" , or "set free", or "circumcised", or "surgically altered"... "Female Genital Mutilation" headlines will run 24-7 until the perpitrator is jailed, then again later all through the trial.
When you leave an OUT like that, they can still hide under "oh, well, see, uh, that's different..." instead of facing the horrible truth that for either sex it's still Genital Mutilation.Saying someone is "Unmutilated" is like saying "Unsweet Tea". So you mean it's just Tea, in its natural state, that nobody has screwed up? It can't be Un- anything
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