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    I am having the shittest experience in highschool so far. Living in the UK cicumsiced is a nightmare! My mates know i am circumcised and calll me names such as a jew mushroom head or a girl. I also fucking told them i was going to restore last year which was a really bad idea. They make fun of me of how i will mever get the real thing. That i am hurting my dick. I can't sleep peacefully while thinking about this. They call me muslim as a joke. Corcumcisiom has rrally fucked me up as a whole. Im not confident anymore. I have not told anyone about my issue but willimg to address this to the rrstoring public the things i have to face. I made a mistake telling them i was circumcised. I had another friend eho was circumcised aswell and changed school for the same reason. My friend are not dicks or anything they are nice most of the times. But you know highschool people like putting others down and choose a thing that somsone doesnt have that they have to make them insecure. Yep total shitwreck.

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    You know, kids will always tease the "odd one". A buddy of mine's kid got circumcised a few years ago at age 15 because he was getting teased in the locker room about having his foreskin. (This heinous practice is so prevalent here in the US). After wards they continued to tease him by calling him "stitches" or "frankenstein dick" (because of the stitch marks). It just goes to show you that kids will always tease someone about something they don't understand. Just tell them it was not YOUR choice and that you are trying to undo the damage. You won't hurt yourself, the damage has already been done. It won't be 100% like the original, but probably about 80% as good and that is worth every ounce of effort. Also, tell your parents about what is going on and that you're quite displeased that they did not offer YOU the choice of what to do with YOUR body. But do it in a nice way, don't get all confrontational.

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    • #3
      In the USA intact boys have historically (within the latter half of the 20th century and beginning of the 21st centuryI) experienced similar discrimination and hazing (bullying).

      I'm 33 now, but from what I remember, I think acting confident and nonplussed (not bothered) by their taunts will go a long way in diffusing their antagonism. Act like they can't hurt you with their verbal abuse. Tell them you are comfortable with who you are and that you had no choice in the state of your genitalia. I realize many teenagers are going to continue to be assholes about these things no matter what you say, but if you give them the impression that they are incapable of disturbing you, I believe they will give up. That was my experience growing up as a gay boy/teen in the 90s. If you have no secrets and they believe you are above their torments, they will eventually give it up.

      I do want to say that I am sorry that you are being treated this way. You don't deserve this and I'm sorry you have to go through this.

      Do you have any close friends who are more understanding? Perhaps a girl-friend (not necessarily romantic) can provide you with some empathy and compassion?

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      • #4
        Yes, people can be cruel, especially when their young and not well developed regarding social standards. My son was teased about his underwear, even. Sigh.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by ItsNotJustSkin View Post
          My mates know i am circumcised and call me names such as a jew mushroom head or a girl.
          I think I would answer such BS with sarcasm; "Your compassion for your fellow man is inspiring."

          Originally posted by ItsNotJustSkin View Post
          told them i was going to restore last year which was a really bad idea. They make fun of me of how i will mever get the real thing. That i am hurting my dick.
          Wow, that's just below low. You are CHOOSING to do something positive about something you DID NOT choose. In my book, that's a whole lot ballsier than just accepting that some piece of shit held you down as a child and "made you his bitch" by carving up your penis. There must by somebody in your crowd who would like to be on the right side of history on this issue.

          Originally posted by ItsNotJustSkin View Post
          My friends are not dicks or anything they are nice most of the times. But you know highschool people like putting others down and choose a thing that somsone doesn't have that they have to make them insecure.
          Sounds like maybe they just want to trade playful jabs in a childlike way? (Like puppies nibbling each others' ears). I mean you could respond "Well, I might grow some more skin for my dick but sadly you'll always be an asshole." This would not be nuking your relationship. It would just be jabbing back.
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