I want to say something about this one of stupidest thing too. Now, I am 22 years old male, an atheist, circumcised male who grown up a conservative Muslim family in Turkey. Male circumcision is highly common in here. In this country, most circumcision performs in childhood, not as an infant generally speaking. There is a huge religious and traditional pressure here. Also fucking doctors ehm, excuse me child abusers support this idea of circumcision because most of them are circumcised and they even believe circumcision is a healthy thing.
My father was circumcised, he is highly conservative. When they applied this procedure I was 6 or 7 years old maybe 8, I don't remember exactly. And nobody protected me. In this place, there are some people I'm not sure if they have a certification most of them, they called 'sünnetçi'. The exact translation for this is 'circumciser'. There is a highly traditional system for this, if you become circumcised, this means you become more man in a cultural context. There is a control mechanism, everywhere. In school with your friends, older people's questions like "When did you circumcised?" Even random people can ask this question.
There is a pretty common thing to celebrate this event, families pushes they financial budget to do that. I remember my family asked me "Let's celebrate this." and I said as a kid "Why? Why we should celebrate this thing, because my one of my part has been cut and gone." And of course I didn't know what they did exactly to me. So, celebration never happened.
And if you search about circumcision on Google, you can't find too many arguments againt circumcision. A lot of people believe, this is a healthy procedure, if you say about harmful effects, a lot of people, even more secular people don't want to hear about it, all they think is this is healthy procedure. I can't talk my friends, relatives, random people. They are just a few people can I talk in my real life. Unbelievable.
All my fault was born in this country. And now, I look my penis and I just see a damaged organ. Even foreskin restoration, can't give me a full sensitivity and functionality.
What did I have done to deserve this? I hate the idea I never give enough pleasure to my GF and myself. I hate the idea they cut me like a toy, object or something.
Lots of these years I thought, I have a pornography addiction problem, or I have other areas need to solve like exercise, getting a healthy lifestyle, sleeping better, having a better grades etc. I just blamed myself to not doing something better. And I thought, if I solve my pornography addiction, life will become easier. It is possible, if I fix my brain chemistry, I can struggle other things more quickly, but this is out of the topic but In reality, I am mutilated, I was abused. And I THINK, there is a probably a correlation between my years of porn use to run away this trauma and circumcision.
If you are a bit sensitive, careful person who thinks differently, society excommunicate you. I am a Math&CS student who wants to work in Data Science field. And you know analytical skills like programming, solving mathematical equations needs patience, practice and time. I have dreams, I want to create a better world or contribute to it. But this issue hurts me a lot. You know, foreskin restoration requires too much time and commitment. And there are lots of other responsibilies. Thanks to my family and other people to create depressed person and costed extra time for me. But you know? I won't go into celibacy, instead, I will try to regain my life and restore my foreskin back. I know this will not the same like years ago, but this struggle does not end until I quit.
I know if I live now, I can save many of others or children. Please help others, say your opinions in every place if possible, support intactivists. This is humiliation, this is insane, this is a child abuse, this is not normal.
Circumcision is breach of human rights. It is a violation. We should end this as humanity.
My father was circumcised, he is highly conservative. When they applied this procedure I was 6 or 7 years old maybe 8, I don't remember exactly. And nobody protected me. In this place, there are some people I'm not sure if they have a certification most of them, they called 'sünnetçi'. The exact translation for this is 'circumciser'. There is a highly traditional system for this, if you become circumcised, this means you become more man in a cultural context. There is a control mechanism, everywhere. In school with your friends, older people's questions like "When did you circumcised?" Even random people can ask this question.
There is a pretty common thing to celebrate this event, families pushes they financial budget to do that. I remember my family asked me "Let's celebrate this." and I said as a kid "Why? Why we should celebrate this thing, because my one of my part has been cut and gone." And of course I didn't know what they did exactly to me. So, celebration never happened.
And if you search about circumcision on Google, you can't find too many arguments againt circumcision. A lot of people believe, this is a healthy procedure, if you say about harmful effects, a lot of people, even more secular people don't want to hear about it, all they think is this is healthy procedure. I can't talk my friends, relatives, random people. They are just a few people can I talk in my real life. Unbelievable.
All my fault was born in this country. And now, I look my penis and I just see a damaged organ. Even foreskin restoration, can't give me a full sensitivity and functionality.
What did I have done to deserve this? I hate the idea I never give enough pleasure to my GF and myself. I hate the idea they cut me like a toy, object or something.
Lots of these years I thought, I have a pornography addiction problem, or I have other areas need to solve like exercise, getting a healthy lifestyle, sleeping better, having a better grades etc. I just blamed myself to not doing something better. And I thought, if I solve my pornography addiction, life will become easier. It is possible, if I fix my brain chemistry, I can struggle other things more quickly, but this is out of the topic but In reality, I am mutilated, I was abused. And I THINK, there is a probably a correlation between my years of porn use to run away this trauma and circumcision.
If you are a bit sensitive, careful person who thinks differently, society excommunicate you. I am a Math&CS student who wants to work in Data Science field. And you know analytical skills like programming, solving mathematical equations needs patience, practice and time. I have dreams, I want to create a better world or contribute to it. But this issue hurts me a lot. You know, foreskin restoration requires too much time and commitment. And there are lots of other responsibilies. Thanks to my family and other people to create depressed person and costed extra time for me. But you know? I won't go into celibacy, instead, I will try to regain my life and restore my foreskin back. I know this will not the same like years ago, but this struggle does not end until I quit.
I know if I live now, I can save many of others or children. Please help others, say your opinions in every place if possible, support intactivists. This is humiliation, this is insane, this is a child abuse, this is not normal.
Circumcision is breach of human rights. It is a violation. We should end this as humanity.
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